The whole issue was the guy she took the pregnancy to later realised the boy isn’t his. He broked up with her and sack her from his house. My wife and I agreed to meet her and the boy for DNA and we went for it. The result came out and truely I’m the father of the child. I cried a lot for letting someone to father my son just because my financial circumstances was poor then.
We took the result home and asked her to go and we will give her a date and meet her family to claim my son. We went to meet her and the family. Her family pleaded on her behalf and I was asked if I will take the boy home or will let him stay with her mom whiles I take the responsibility.
My wife has already made up her mind of taking him home so I responded I will take him home. My EX who is the mother of my son replied NO she will not let me take him home. I should let him stay with her whiles I take the responsibilities. My wife said NO so if she won’t let us take the boy home then her husband won’t take any responsibility.
My EX stood up trying to fight my wife. So one elderly man slapped her and asked her to sit down. We were then told to go and come back and they will talk to her. We left to the house without the boy. Now i have decided not to go to the family again but my wife is pleading with me to go there again with my own family including her.
Now house should I go there again or not because this time I don’t want to listen to my wife because I see the whole thing to be nonsense on the part of my EX.