Struggling to maintain and sustain that relationship you’ve worked hard for? This is a simple guide on how to keep a man.
1. Don’t Bring Up Issues Of His Past:
Do not keep repeating things that already happened in the past. He has learned from them. He has become mature. Men hates it when things concerning their past is constantly repeated to them especially through arguments. You make him loose trust for you and that will make it difficult for him to tell you other stuffs about him since you couldn’t even conceal the first ones he laid on you. Don’t Do This.
2. Surprise Him:
One of the most easiest way to keep your man is to shower him with surprises. Not necessarily gifts on the regular but surprises. It is not only boys who need to have efforts to make the relationship work. Girls should do the same. Guys feel on top of the worlds when their women surprised them because at that moment, all they feel is loved.
3. Understand That He Is Not Perfect:
He’s Human. He gets tired. Gets stressed. He gets pissed off. He has lapses but he is trying his best. Men go where they find peace. Don’t be a nagging girlfriend/woman and be throwing words at him at the least chance. That will make him distance himself from you. Be his peace and he will always run back to you when the storm becomes hard for him.
4. Lower Your Pride:
Be a woman. Don’t follow feminist words and think you can rub shoulders with your man. He is the man of the house. Accord him with respect and he’ll lick he floor you walk on. They say the easiest way to make your man yours as a woman is to be submissive. Submit to his needs and he is yours forever. It is not always all the time that he needs to adjust with you. You do your part as well to make the relationship work.
5. Understand That He Has Friends:
Do not guard him and do not be too strict when he plans to go out with friends. Give him your trust and everything shall follow. He will surely want to handout with the boys on couple occasions. The best you can do as his woman is to advise him to the observant and careful. Remind him to trust no one.
6. Ask Him How His Day Went:
Do this and he’ll think of you all day at work. Doing this reminds him that there is someone at home waiting for him. You can give him massage and make him feel that it was just a bad day and it gets better with time. Check up also on him while at work. Send jokes memes and laugh on phone.
7. Be Faithful To Him:
Don’t give him a reason not to trust you. A man can date you for 3 years and go ahead and marry someone he met 3 months ago. Never give him a reason not to trust you. Be transparent. Tell him how your day went. Share your day to day activities with him as he will do same with you.
8. Cook For Him:
They say “the way to a man’s heart is his stomach”. You want his heart, then cook him delicious tasty meals. He will brag about you to his friends and colleagues and that’s a plus to your relationship CV. Never make a man go hungry when you’re with him. Else, he’ll find solace in someone who’s ready to cook for him and you may be made to leave the scene.
9. Appreciate His Efforts Everyday:
Make him feel worth. Appreciate the fact that he chose you and want to be with you forever. Appreciate the gifts he buys for you. Let him know how much you love him for the little things he does for you. Thank him.
10. Give Him Good Sex:
Men will always be men and being a man comes with some night time works. Study shows that Sex is on of the best stress relievers. Give him good sex and he’ll yearn more to be with you. On his way to work, tell him how you’re going send him to “Jerusalem” tonight. Be the first ne he wants to run back home to all the time. Don’t be a boring woman.
Men have needs like women do. There is no perfect man and not all men are the same. It is too lame to generalise. You just love the wrong person. Do not love a f*ck and start crying on social media when things go sour. But at the end, no matter how hard you keep him, if he does not want to stay anymore, you can’t force him to be with you.
NB: Never Force A Guy To Be With You.