The Real Truth About Getting A Girlfriend.

Most guys have it backwards.

They think that when they get a girlfriend, they will finally be happy.

Sorry to say but that’s not how it works.

If only someone explained this to ‘Jimmy’ back in the day, he would’ve had less frustrations in my dating life.

To prove Jimmy’s point, let me ask you a question.

Have you ever met someone who became very “busy” after going on a few dates with you?

This happened to ‘Jimmy’ A LOT and I couldn’t figure out why.

Insanity is doing the same things over and over again expecting a different result.

So Jimmy took a step back to asses what’s going on.

Let me share with you what Jimmy discovered.

The moment you’re happy on your own is when the right relationship enters your life.
When a woman meets you for the first time, she’s assessing subconsciously what type of life she’s gonna have with you.

Is it going to be exciting and spontaneous OR is it going to be lame and predictable?

It’s a bit of a tough pill to swallow, isn’t it?

Here’s the ugly truth about getting a girlfriend. You may not like it but I’ll tell you anyway.

You don’t attract what you want. You attract who you are.

The Real Truth About Getting A Girlfriend.
The Real Truth About Getting A Girlfriend.

The moment you’re happy on your own is when the right relationship enters your life.

I know this from Jimmy’s experience.

Back in the day, Jimmy had nothing going for him. He had no hobbies, was out of shape and barely had friends.

Whenever he’d meet a girl, he would be OBSESSED with them.

His sense of self-worth was based on whether they like him or not.

Of course, none of them would want to go out with him.

Looking back now, Jimmy really couldn’t blame them. Who would want to date someone who lived such a boring life?

That’s when Jimmy took a break from dating and decided to focus on himself.

He started going to the gym, reading interesting books and taking up new hobbies.

Overtime, he started to really like his own company. He valued his opinion more and did more things that he enjoyed.

And then something strange happened. Women were suddenly more interested in him.

If he go on a bad date or someone didn’t text him back right away, he was less reactive.

He knew that he had better things to do than worry about something so petty.

Funny how that works, huh?

The better you become as a man, the higher quality relationships you’ll attract in your life.

Whoever says otherwise is selling you hype.

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