I married my wife in Kumasi two years ago. During those period we were dating, we were very much apart due to distance. She stayed in Kumasi while I worked in Accra.
During few times of my personal meeting before our wedding, I noticed huge communication between her and this man. I called her attention to it but she just waived it aside saying they are just friends as Ex (stuff). She joined me up in Accra after the marriage but the communication between them still continued.
This is a woman I have sacrificed so much for in my life by providing her basics need with the children even though not huge like that. She told me the Ex is a Doctor and they have nice experience together while dating back then. I have adviced even begged her to stop this communication as it is very hurtful and insulting to my personality but she won’t stop. Instead she secretly calls and requests money from this guy in almost different occasions.
At a point in time in the past when she went to Kumasi to get her transfer from work place to Accra, she still visit the guy even as she is heavily pregnant that time. I was able to get the idea through her bank account statement when the same guy send her money for what business I don’t understand. It is almost 2 years of our marriage now, I am starting to regret why I marry her initially even as I noticed much difference between us; she is Ewe while am Ga.
I wish I had married my tribe whom I can easily understand. Just yesterday night I saw another 200ghc alert from the same guy to my wife. I am really pained though I have not confront her. See guys, I have 2 boys, twin, I take care of them, buy food and all.
Though my work is not going fine but I try my best to make her happy but it seems she is not built for me. I don’t really know what is going on again in my life as I am heartbroken.
Maybe the man is even in Accra most times. Many things are just running through my mind and I don’t know what to do. Please advise.