I am married and tho there’s no issues, I’m yet to conceive and my marriage is soon hitting it 4th year but i am still believing God for my own.
My sister in-laws, two, of which one is married and the other one not married came with their kids for the Xmas holidays and anytime they come around like this I always get stressed; so stressed that sometimes I have pains under my stomach and most times have miscarriage.
So this Easter, the one that is not married came with the other ones children and I just made up my mind that I wouldn’t stress myself again. I do what I can do and leave the rest, the one that is not married has left her sister’s house and has been staying with us since last year.
My problem is not her staying with us, but rather she wants to be the one to cook at all times and decide what we will eat. I am a very good cook and its not as if I don’t know how to cook. We buy things in bulk in the house, but when is time for me and that my sister in-law to go to the market I will be the one holding bag and she will be throwing things we are buying inside.
I just had to leave it that way for peace to reign,my husband provide everything, I no longer cook in my home, I don’t eat what I want, and she doesn’t like to manage when cooking. She cooks as if it’s party food, while I try to use little and still very delicious, they act like they own the house whenever they come meanwhile my husband built and owns the house which is a three bedroom flat.
Tho I am a business woman and I sell my products from home. Before they came I do things the way I want and how I want it to be done and my husband is a very caring man but his sister’s decision stands in my home and am kind of tired. I have told him that no one Is coming for holiday again because I need to rest and heal so I can carry my own children too.
It’s not as if I don’t like children but their mother can be in their own house relaxing and am here not resting, don’t know what to do.