I have been dating my girlfriend for 5 years. In August, we’ll be 6years old. We fight a lot like every couple do but then we are still together because I love her very well and she loves me even more. I’ve never cheated on her because when I date, my body count is for only one person. She’s the only one my body yearns for, hence I hate cheating very much. I give her everything she wants, including 200 cedis every two weeks. I never make her lack.
But then, she came over to spend some days, I took her phone [ I know it isn’t right tho ] and saw she was cheating with another boy who also has a girlfriend aside. So, I didn’t ask her on the same day if she was cheating or not, I waited till she left. I asked her if she was cheating on me. I only took her phone to check if she was cheating because I noticed some things about her had changed.
We used to talk from 9pm to 12Am, 1Am to 3AM there before we sleep. But then, it got to a time, we could only talk from 9PM to 10PM then she’ll tell me she wants to sleep which wasn’t normal. She’s the type that doesn’t sleep early. So I decided to check what’s wrong and I found out(on her phone) that she was cheating. She denied. I asked her several times, she denied it several times to the extent that she even told me I don’t trust her and I don’t believe her and all those stuffs. I then told her that I took her phone and found out, guys, this lady still held her grounds and told me it’s not true.
Until I got to mention some lines from their chat, that is when she accepted that she is cheating on me. I asked if she loves the boy, she said no. I don’t really think you can date someone you don’t like or love. It’s impossible. I really love her but what kills me is when I found out and she continued to lie to me that it’s not true. I told her that If I had not found out, they probably would have continued of which I’m not lying. Guys help me, should I leave her so she can go for the boy? I’m afraid even if I take her back, she’ll cheat again. Please help me my brothers and sisters, I’m really in the mud.