I’m 24years of age and dated a young lady at the age of 20yrs, she was in her second year in the senior high school, due to hardship from her family side her mum accepted for her to stay with me though she was in school when we met. I got her pregnant in her third semester of the second year and she decided not to abort it though her mum was putting so much pressure on me that I should abort it so her daughter could continue her education. I explained everything to her mum that she can still go to school and write her wassce with the pregnancy so she shouldn’t worry about that but still the woman was insisting.
The lady also did not want to do that so her mum abandoned her for me and we both agreed to keep the pregnancy. Fortunately or unfortunately the corona virus arrived and she gave birth in early March of 2020. Because of the covid, they postponed their wassce which indeed helped her to stay home for 3 months before settling for her papers, all with my effort and support without any relative from both side. Luckily she was named after a woman who’s now in the US and looked for her whereabout immediately her results came.
Trust me, she spent all her 3year in the house but passed all her papers though she didn’t get a single A. The woman asked if she has completed school and she said yes and she asked of her results, she sent it to her and the woman was really happy. The woman bought her forms that day and so luckily for us she got admitted to the UEW. When she started schooling, the child was 4 months old and I named the child after her so she came to pick the child to stay with, I was still supporting her while at the same time taking care of that little baby who has been forced to stop breastfeeding prematurely.
Now, this lady came from school in the first semester and things started changing, she was able to delete all my pics from the phone I bought for her and when I asked all she could say is her memory was full but none of hers was deleted. Well I took it cool though there were still some changes I don’t wanna talk about. She came back from the second semester and the change was increasing, Third semester I realized that she was finally cheating and has been using some abusive words on me and stuff, I swear I can be in a room with this lady and all she could do is to chat as much as she could, talk to different kind of guys till she’s satisfied.
Sometimes, I pretend as if I’m asleep to listen to some of her calls and trust me it is what it is. I was working in a Bauxite company in Western region and used my bike for Okada after I close for work early, not all the time and this work is full of customers. We were inside one evening around 7:30pm and an unknown number called me but if any number calls and she’s around I put it on the speaker for her to listen. The one who called was a lady but sounds too grown and what she said was “bro please I’m stucked at your station now, I don’t get a car so please come and pick me up. Any amount you will request I will pay you because it’s getting late” I asked who she was and she told me she’s the sister I picked her to some place that she took my number that she would call me anytime. She’s going there so I later on knew who she was and asked permission from my lady to go.
This lady never opened her mouth for a word but I still begged her that that woman really needs my help so she should give me some minutes I will come back soon. Unfortunately for me, after dropping the woman on my way home it started raining and when I got home in 20 mins time come and see this lady said I’ve gone to f*ck her so she’s done with me she’s leaving the next morning honestly I took it as a joke and was even smiling. I was at work the next morning just to see a message from her that she’s leaving. I swear I came home from work just to realize that she meant her words. She just left and that was the end of the show. Well everything was good for her. She started a relationship with her ex and they were both chilling while I was bleeding. Infact what is broke my heart was later I even got fired from my work because depression affected me badly at work and these Chinese people too hmm, so i was doing okada as a full time job. I also came to meet a lady I’m with now and she has been good to me from day one till now and God being so good I’ve also gotten the opportunity to travel outside and come and see my baby mama.
I swear I can’t count the different numbers that are apologizing to me on her behalf. Frankly speaking she said she’s not coming for money or something but she has just regretted everything she did and if I love my daughter I should forgive her and accept her back. Over a month now this girl doesn’t want me to rest. If I switch on my data after work then problem. I loved her and for the sake of my daughter I could wish it could be possible but the lady I’m with now has done nothing, absolutely nothing against me. She accepted me for who I was and she’s been there for me till now. This lady was even taking care of me and my baby sometime when I was sick and was not able to work OMG God bless this lady ah hmm.
Please I’m just confused and need serious advises from you and your great readers.