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My Dilemma: I Want To Marry Her But My Mother Is Against It.

I’m a young guy, 29 years. I had a crush on one of my female teachers (let’s call her Miss Rosemond) back in my junior high school days. She was indeed a very beautiful lady and she still looks even more prettier today. I had so many fantasies & lots of crazy ideas about her inside my head which led to me being uneasy whenever she came to teach us. I had to bow my head or dodge my eyes fast each time I felt her eyes were meeting mine. It was really bad. One time, I think she had noticed my plight and called me out after her lesson. She wanted to know why I was always uncomfortable in her class. Trust me, I would’ve been the joke of the century if I had answered that question in truth. Looking down, I managed to tell her I’m okay and there was nothing wrong with me. I know I didn’t sound convincing to even my own ears. She said a lot of things to make me feel at ease in her presence but I knew she was wasting time.

My mum who was also a public school teacher came for a PTA meeting in my school one time and afterwards miss Rosemond asked to talk to her. The school was a Private school so the teachers were younger (mostly SHS graduates). I don’t know what transpired between my mum and miss Rosemond but when I got home later that day, my mum said she has handed me over to miss Rosemond so she will be my mum/teacher in school & they had also exchanged contacts so she will be checking up on my progress from her. This new development didn’t sound well to me at all, I enjoyed admiring miss Rosemond from afar but it seemed she was going to get closer to me in school.

My Dilemma: I Want To Marry Her But My Mother Is Against It.

Indeed miss Rosemond became very close to me to the point of eating with me and somehow the tension around me gradually faded off. My mum usually gave me gifts to be given to her. She could come to our house sometimes and have lengthy conversations with my mum. She had practically become friends with my mum and sisters.

During one of her visits, my mum asked that I follow miss Rosemond home to collect something for her. We got to her house after a long walk and I saw a young girl whom I presumed was her younger sister. She was busily removing clothes from a dry line. Miss Rosemond said something to her before entering the house but I didn’t really hear the words. It was my first time in that area as I wasn’t allowed to roam freely so I didn’t know most part of the town. I sat down in the couch in her room while she folded a piece of cloth she had taken out from a bag. She put it inside a polytene bag and handed it to me. So I got up and she led me to the door. She asked if I would be able to find my way back home which I said yes. She smiled and said bye.

My Dilemma: I Want To Marry Her But My Mother Is Against It.

About 5 minutes into my walk back home, I realized I had left my face towel back in her couch. I turned back and doubled my steps. Her sister was still outside the house when I got there so I asked if madam was still inside and she said yes. I knocked at the door softly and she said come in. I stepped inside the room and OMG I froze in shock. Miss Rosemond lied completely naked on the couch. It’s like my brained stopped functioning. She panicked on seeing me and screamed. Her scream unfroze me and I rushed out of the room. It all happened within some few seconds but it had seemed like eternity.

I got home and paused at the gate for a while. Unknowing whether miss Rosemond had called my mum about the incidence and how her reaction would be towards me. It was an accident, yes that’s what I would say if she came at me with the issue. Hours had passed since I returned home and mum was not saying anything about the issue even after she had called miss Rosemond to thank her for the item. Could it be that she kept it to herself and didn’t tell mum? I wondered. Later in the night I laid in my bed with my eyes opened when I had an idea. Yes, I had to apologize to her for badging into her like that. So I got up and drafted all the apologetic words I could think of onto a piece of paper. I would give it to her at school on Monday as it was still weekend.

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Monday came too quickly. I wished I could skip school because I didn’t know how I was going to face miss Rosemond again. The tension and uneasiness had come back. Now, it was a little to end our first lesson for the day when one of our juniors came in and whispered something to the teacher. He called out my name and asked me to follow the boy out to see Miss Rosemond. Is she going to lash me or what? I was confused. I stepped out of the class with the boy when I remembered my letter. Maybe that will lessen my punishment or something. I asked the boy to wait and I rushed back to the classroom to pick it up.

My Dilemma: I Want To Marry Her But My Mother Is Against It.

It was surprising to find only miss Rosemond seated in the staff room. I greeted her with my head down but she didn’t respond. She kept gazing at me and I could feel her eyes cutting through my soul. She asked, “have you told anyone about what happened?”. I shook my head and stretched my hand handing over my letter to her. I stood there in total silence while she read the letter. Afterwards, she stood up, walked closer to me and gave me a hug. I was lost, I expected to be punished but here I was receiving hug from madam Rosemond, wow. She told me she’s forgiven me as it wasn’t my fault. She thought it was her younger sister who was knocking at the door. She asked me not to talk about it with anyone and I nodded.

Years passed, now I had completed JHS and was now in my 2nd year in SHS but I maintained a close relationship with miss Rosemond as I really liked her. I had her number so I would call her sometimes and she did call to check up on me too. She was still teaching at the school. During one vacation, I visited her at her house and this time I had grown some small wings so I wasn’t the shy little boy anymore. We talked about my life in the boarding house and she also told me about her days in the SHS as well. She told me she had plans of going to the university and had already applied for admission. For the first time, I managed to tell her she was beautiful, she smiled & said thank you. It was about to get dark so I decided to leave and she offered to give me an escort to their junction. We reached the junction and she had already said her goodbye when I said “madam, please can I get a hug”. She hesitated for a moment but then she opened her arms and I hugged her so tight.

My Dilemma: I Want To Marry Her But My Mother Is Against It.
My Dilemma: I Want To Marry Her But My Mother Is Against It.

I had met pretty girls at my school and even around my neighborhood but miss Rosemond was different. She was beautiful in a different kind of way. She used to be my teacher but not anymore. Today was the 2nd time of hugging her after bumping into her nakedness back in JHS days. I was 17 and she was likely to be around 22 or 23. She was older but she’s all that I think about aside my studies. I decided to be a man and take the risk to tell her exactly how I feel about her. But was it going to be that easy? I thought of all these things while I was lying down on my bed before I finally slept off.

Present day, a lot had happened around us but Rosy (yeah it’s Rosy now) and I had already started having an affair in our university days. She graduated two years before I did. We were in different institutions tho. She’s now teaching in an SHS in Sunyani and I’m a Physician assistant. Everyday with her feels like am in heaven. She was my dream come true and for that I cherish her so much. I noticed she held back a lot when we started the affair but now she’s fallen flat for me. My love for her grew even stronger after our first sex some years back, I realized she was a virgin all those years. I was her first man and I swore to marry her.

My Dilemma: I Want To Marry Her But My Mother Is Against It.
My Dilemma: I Want To Marry Her But My Mother Is Against It.

We recently found out that she is pregnant (2 months old). We discussed marriage last year and even went ahead to see her family. However, my mum has always being against her ever since she found out I was seeing her. She didn’t agree to our marriage plans. I wanted to disregard her and push forward with our marriage because we have the support of everyone except my mum but Rosy wouldn’t let me dishonour my mum saying it would come back to hunt us down. I have discussed the issue extensively with my mum on several occasions to make her come to terms with me but she keeps telling me to leave Rosy and find someone else without any solid reasons. Unfortunately, my dad is not around to have a say in this matter as he passed away when I was 3yrs.

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Anonymous Tales

I love my mum to the core. Raising me and my sisters as a single parent wasn’t easy at all. She’s lived her whole life sacrificing her all to make us have better lives. Mum and Rosy were very cool back in the days but I don’t know why mum has become so cold towards her now. I’ve engaged almost all the prominent people I know to plead with her on our(Rosy and I) behalf but her answer remains no each time. Mind you, Rosy always had nice and established men coming after her all these years but she ignored them and waited for me even though age was catching up with her.

My Dilemma: I Want To Marry Her But My Mother Is Against It.
My Dilemma: I Want To Marry Her But My Mother Is Against It.

I know both women have made sacrifices in their lives for me and I love them both. I want to fulfill my promise by marrying Rosy but she doesn’t want to come between my mum and I. According to her (Rosy), as long as my mum is alive, it’s either she says yes or there will be no marriage. Her family is against having a child out of wedlock but she’s firm that she will never engage in abortion. Her people have also started to pressure her after she informed her mum about the pregnancy. I’m almost drowning in confusion. Please share ur thoughts n suggestions to help me out as am fast losing my mind.

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