I’m a young lady in my mid twenties and I’m in my first relationship. This is my first relationship and whenever I ask my boyfriend for something he tells me, he doesn’t have. But if he’s in need I give him without thinking. I’ve tried to talk to him concerning this issue and he’s like he doesn’t have money but if he gets he will take care of me.
We were chatting one day and he was like, he needs to give money to a certain lady, so I ask him why he has to give her money and he said the lady is a long time friend and her parents were good to him once. I did not complain, but this has been going on for sometime now . He gives her and his other friends money and gifts but not me. I told him, this can’t go on,he said he’s sorry but he promise to marry and take care of me.
My mom has also advised me that, the way a guy treats you when you are dating is how he’s going to treat you when he marries you. I’m in a relationship but my parents literally does or pay my bills. He is always finding excuses. He’s also trying hard to demand for sex from me, but I’m not giving in . Please I’m really confused, I want to leave him.
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Whenever I decide to leave him, he comes back apologizing and saying I’m his lucky star and ever since I came to his life things are going on well for him. I’ve tried several times to leave him but we end up together again. Is it because it’s my first relationship? Bcause I don’t know why I’m still with him.
Please help me with any sort of advise or suggestions on how to tackle this.