I have been dating this fine lady since 2019. When I met her I figured I have met my better half. She a very good lady (Character) but she loves sex. Our relationship has been her longest and she actually she sees it to be her first because the previous relationships didn’t even last upto to two weeks.
Everything has been very fine between us. Unfortunately I have had my share of heartbreaks at least 3 times. Now to the main issue, we haven’t been intimate for almost 9 months that’s because I haven’t been attracted to her sexually and I feel it will be a problem when we get married. I wouldn’t want to shift blames but I didn’t ever want to have sex with her until we get married but she kept pushing because she didn’t understand why her boyfriend wouldn’t be intimate with her.
I trust her and I do care about her and I love her but not as she feels. I have been very supportive to her in every way. She is currently in the nursing school and in her final year. I have always supported her. Recently I told her that I don’t think we are meant to be together. Maybe I only came into her life to be of help in her education and be there for her in every way but to be married to her, I don’t think so.
We both might have thought we could be together because we have been there for each other. She has also been supportive in her own way and I really appreciate that. That fact that I am not attracted to her sexually is the only reason I wouldn’t want to marry her because to be honest it will be difficult. I don’t know what she is thinking about in all this and I don’t know how well I can explain to her to understand.
I don’t ever want to hurt someone’s daughter for the rest of her life. Before someone will say I have someone else (which I don’t because I don’t even have time for myself to talk about dating two women. I am not proud of it but I am workaholic(extreme) because I have a growing company and I am a partner to. Please u guys should help with ur opinions and advice. Will be in the comments.